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Planning your wedding music

Different generations, different cultures, one celebration. How to make your wedding music personal while leaving your DJ room to read the guests.

BEFORE WE SPEAK

Three useful starting points.

  • The venue, spaces and proposed running order.
  • A few songs that feel like you, and anything to avoid.
  • The exact recordings for key moments and your planner’s contact.
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ILLUSTRATIVE RUNNING ORDER · TO ADAPT

Give each moment its place.

An example to adapt with your wedding planner, around the spaces and timings of your celebration.

MomentMusical intentionTo agree together
Arrival & cocktailsA warm presence with room for conversation.Spaces and the desired sound level.
Dinner & speechesA flexible flow with planned pauses.The cue for each speech.
First danceYour song, in your chosen recording.The cue point and duration.
The partyA live selection shaped with the guests.Favourites, exclusions and the finishing time.
01

Begin with your guests

For an international wedding, musical tastes rarely sit in one genre or one decade. Tell your DJ about the mix of generations, cultures and languages attending. Share a handful of songs you both love and any music you prefer to avoid. This gives the set a personal direction while leaving space to respond to the dance floor.

02

Give each moment its own role

Arrival, cocktail hour, dinner, the first dance and the party do not need the same intensity. Mark the moments that deserve attention, then leave room for conversation between them. The goal is a natural progression through the day, with the first dance opening the next chapter rather than interrupting the previous one.

03

Make the important tracks unambiguous

For the ceremony, entrances and first dance, confirm the exact recording, version and cue point. A live version can be very different from a radio edit. Share speech timings and who will announce each moment. Keep one final running order with your planner, rather than different versions circulating among suppliers.

04

Treat multiple spaces as separate setups

A ceremony in a garden, dinner on a terrace and dancing indoors may require different equipment positions. Discuss microphones, movement between spaces, installation access and the venue’s agreed sound conditions before the day. Equipment requirements belong in the quote, so everyone understands what is included.

05

Keep the brief personal and practical

Your enquiry can start with the date, venue, guest count and planned finishing time. Add your planner’s contact if relevant and describe how you want the evening to feel. Planning from abroad? FLANKER prepares your French Riviera wedding in English or French and coordinates the musical plan with your local wedding planner.

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